Be Who You Are and Not Someone’s Idea of Who You Should Be
This Encodement Intensive Will:
Someone Else’s Life Flashes before Their Eyes
I’m going to give you a different description than you’ve probably heard.
When you’re co-dependent you’re doing one or more of the following:
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Doing for others what they should be doing for themselves
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Sticking your nose where it doesn’t belong
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Preventing others from learning and experiencing what they need to for their personal growth
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Paying more attention to others when you should be taking care of yourself
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Focusing on the problems of others to avoid handling your own
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Allowing yourself to be defined by someone else
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Abdicating your personal power
Every have that happen to you?
Of course you have… unless you’re a narcissist or sociopath. In that case the world revolves around you.
A co-dependent does everything possible to get someone to do what they need to in life.
They enable people to stay the way they are (drunk, gambler, powerless and more) by forcing them to do things they should be doing for themselves.
I’m not talking about not taking care of someone who is truly incapacitated through illness or disability.
I’m talking about propping people up who need to find their inner strength and use it.
One of my therapy mentors said, “If you’re working harder than your client, you’re working too hard.”
The same is true for those you’re attempting to help.
If you’re doing more for their progress than they are doing for themselves, STOP! You’re causing more harm than good.
When You’re Draining Your Power, Your Energy and Feeling Resentful and Used, the Problem Is You and Your Lack of Boundaries, NOT the Other Person
When you betray yourself by not being there FOR YOU, you have abdicated your primary responsibility which is your growth.
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